The Real Cost of Catering to Toxic Clients: A Culture Perspective

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Culture Matters, the monthly forum that tackles topics that impact company culture, tackled toxic customers in the conversation held last Friday, October 18, 2024.

Toxic customers, while rare (hopefully!) have a ripple effect on the company, people involved, and people who see the toxic behavior tolerated. The company can be impacted financially by scope creep, depleted morale, disengagement, turnover, and damaged reputation. Employees can be impacted when customers berate them, disrespect boundaries, and demand services beyond what is agreed upon.

When leaders allow disrespectful customers to continue treating employees poorly, they send the signal that their people do not deserve respect.

We have not had toxic clients in recent years, but some clients have. One executive client, Pam, shared about the client point person, Dwight, being so toxic that no one else will deal with him. Pam (names changed, obviously) said Dwight is rude, belittles the women account leaders, and demands they are available 24/7. No one wanted to work with Dwight, but his account brought in decent revenue. His account landed with Pam’s team because she was thick-skinned and could handle him.

And, she could. She did not take his treatment personally. The interesting thing Pam noted, however, was that her bosses would not speak with Dwight about how he treated their colleagues. Their lack of courage showed a side of leadership that discouraged her, and she lost respect for them saying, “They don’t respect me very much either.”

The Culture Matters conversation included a discussion around how to recognize the toxic behavior early so we can head it off before it gets out of hand. A few things to watch for…

◼️ Natural stages in the client relationship (i.e., new point people, account changes)
◼️ Consistent disrespect, boundary violations, or manipulation
◼️ Missed or constantly late deadlines, payments, meetings

To prevent toxic relationships, prevent them from occurring in the first place by onboarding clients to your company’s way of working. Include communication styles and expectations, boundaries (i.e., emails are read between 9am and 6pm), workflow, and confirming project scope.

 Seek to bond with clients early and often so communication is clear all along and relationships don’t have time to sour.

Here are a few other things discussed in this month’s Culture Matters:

◼️ Examples of Toxic Client Behaviors: Participants shared examples of toxic behaviors, including constant disrespect, unreasonable demands, aggressive communication, arguments about fees, and manipulative tactics.

◼️ What Non-Leaders Can Do: It’s important for employees to document interactions, escalate issues when necessary, and maintain professionalism while protecting their well-being.

◼️ What Leaders Can Do: Leaders have a responsibility to set boundaries, provide support to employees, and take decisive action when a client relationship becomes untenable. Discern how the values of the company align with the behavior you are tolerating.

The company culture will become the worst behavior you tolerate, so be careful what you expect your employees to accept. Be intentional about the behavior you accept.

 One of the worst statements in the history of business is: the customer is always right. They are not always right, and the pressure of that expectation contributes to toxicity. While there’s no need to be harsh when a client is wrong, bending over backwards for clients who are not only incorrect but also toxic goes beyond what’s reasonable for any company or employee to endure.

If you take care of your employees, they will take care of your customers. The Ritz Carlton, known for exceptional customer service, has this philosophy nailed.

"We are superior to the competition because we hire employees who work in an environment of belonging and purpose. We foster a climate where the employee can deliver what the customer wants. You cannot deliver what the customer wants by controlling the employee." 

Horst Schulze, Former Ritz Carlton President

Join the Next Culture Matters Session!

Register for our next Culture Matters discussion on November 15, 2024, where we'll dive into “How to Boost Your Culture After a Setback.” It’s a perfect follow-up to this month’s conversation, offering strategies to rebuild and boost culture after challenging times. We look forward to seeing you there!